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10 Ultimate and Simple Self Care Ideas For Moms.

Self care is a process or an activity we follow in order to take care of our physical and mental health.But often this concept is neglected by moms.

Being the prime caretaker of the house, moms mostly prioritise others happiness, wishes and care.They tend to keep their own desires and needs at the back seat.
And it’s normal.
Same was with me.

We are conditioned in such a way where perfectionism is the only thing that matters, isn’t it?

Moms don’t care how they feel about themselves, the only thing that makes them happy and content is that they are keeping their family happy.

Mom’s job is the best job but a hard job too. So, it’s vital that we make an effort for ourselves.

Moms often think a lot and tend to get engross in guilts, considering it as a selfish act, even I did!

But the fact is that if moms aren’t happy or feeling better, how can they make others happy or take care good care of others.

Also read: I admit I am not a perfect mom, do you?

I never acknowledged the practice of self care, until the pressure started taking a toll on my mental and physical health.
I was left fatigued and grumpy performing all the house chores, motherly duties and other responsibilities.

As a mom, I realized that this is the best thing I could do for myself.

Soon, I found my solace in reading and later, writing!

Hence, it’s vital to incorporate such self care habits that help you achieve a meaningful life, to be the best version of yourselves.

Benefits of self care for moms:

  • Makes you productive and efficient.
  • Helps gain self confidence.
  • Boosts your mental and physical health.
  • Role model for your child.
  • Fills positivity.
  • You start loving and valuing yourself.

Also read: Do Sunday exists in a moms life?

Here I am sharing what I know to be true about self care. Hope this post motivates you to take action and take your self care to the next level.

1. Move your body: Pregnancy changes a woman’s body. Bulgy fat, change in posture, hormonal imbalance, back pain are some of the issues faced post delivery. Moreover while catering family’s needs women tend to ignore their health which lead to severe health problems.
Now it’s time to bring your body back into alignment. Practice yoga, zumba, aerobics or even light exercises under the supervision of your gynecologist. Physical fitness can’t be avoided. If still can’t manage start with a light walk, climb stairs or just simple dance moves can aid in keeping your body active and more productive.

2. Feed your body well: To keep your body healthy and fit, you need to feed it well. Eat healthy and nutritious meals to get back the energy. Avoid junk, caffeine and alcohol. Drink plenty of water. Eating healthy and well-balanced diet improves your stamina, provides energy and nutrition to your body.Healthy food also plays a key role in balancing hormones, aid in obesity, depression and immune diseases.

3. Mental boost: Taking care of your kids and being available 24 hours for them can sometimes leave you exhausted and drained for the rest of the day. It’s important to keep yourself sane or this might affect your overall physical and mental health. Mental peace is much required while taking care of kids.
Cultivate a hobby such as sketching, dancing, singing, reading as they provide relaxation to you minds and also boost your creativity.

4. Take a break: Looking after your children, taking care of your house and managing other duties at the same time can be daunting. Don’t drag yourself in order to prove your self perfect. After all it’s your body not a machine. Take a short nap and give rest to your body as chores can wait. Also indulge in activities that rejuvenate you. Pamper yourself because if you look good, you feel good.

5. Get enough sleep: For moms, sleep is often the last thing in their routine. Lack of sleep increases the risk of heart disease, depression and diabetes. A good sound sleep is the secret of good health.

6. Ask for help: Often moms feel shy or embarrassment asking for any kind of help. They pressurise themselves to complete the task. Free yourself from any burden or workload that is overwhelming you. Asking for help doesn’t mean you are not capable or you are less than anyone.

7. Connect with others: Be in touch with your friends and family. Talk to them if you feel low or need advice. Organise a get-together or picnic on weekends with family. Good relationships can make you happy, entertained and relieve stress.

8. Practice gratitude: The best thing to keep yourself away from depression or any kind of negativity is to focus on positivity. Be grateful for what you have achieved or done. Write down about your achievements, the moments that brought smile on your face or
write journals.

9. Joy of being a parent: Apart from all the deadlines and hardships, engage with your little ones. Spend quality time with them. Please, dance or cuddle with them. Celebrate the joy of motherhood rather than overwhelming yourself in trying to be perfect. Feel proud of all the hard work you put into being a mom. A child needs a happy mom rather than a perfect mom.

10. Spend time in nature: Try to be close with the nature. Spending time amidst nature brings serenity and peace. Watch birds chirping, a river flowing or sunrise and sunset. Grow plants and take care of them. Walk up to the nearest garden with greenery around.

Also read: My ways of self care methods when life got overwhelmed.

Incorporating these tips in your self care routine will not only help you work productively but, boost your emotional, physical and mental health.
Just find what it is that refuels you, brings you peace and happiness. Moreover taking better care of yourself is important.

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Do Sunday Exists In A Mom’s Life?

Do Sunday exist in a mother’s life? I haven’t seen yet in my married life.

Sunday is known as a holiday, a day off in a week, a break from mundane work, a rest day for students and office-goers.

So, basically everyone has a day to rest, to recharge oneself after a hectic week but why not for a mom?

In my entire life, I have hardly seen my mother, grandmother, aunts take rest or break from kitchen or other house chores.
Exception were days, they fall ill but, that break couldn’t be too long as, there was a whole family dependent on her for their meals, ironed neat clothes, clean organised house and many other small things.

So, what we mothers do in such situation?
We take medicines, that too without doctor’s prescription, no matter, how badly they affect our body!

Atleast, I have done it many times so, that my kids do not miss their school, my husband doesn’t miss his meals or doesn’t gets late for his office and my routine of house doesn’t get halted.

And I bet, my mother, mother-in-law and all the women’s have done this or still do this, even you!Isn’t it!

Let’s admit, we are taught to be in such a way. In fact, we are doing what we have seen our moms doing, right?Remember, as a kid, students or just teenagers what Sundays meant to us!

As the Monday commenced, we eagerly waited for the coming Sunday.

Sundays was reserved for sleeping till late hours, lying on the bed watching our favourite shows and for some it was outing with friends having lunch, shopping or watching new movie.

I agree that marriage changes the lives of a woman. We are in the responsibility of taking care of our family 24 hrs a day, but why are we not allowed to take care of ourselves also?

We are always happy to serve our family but when we will serve our own selves?

Seems selfish? Guilt engulfing your minds? It’s normal.

Now, this is how we are brought up with such mindsets.

Ok, not for the whole day but, at least mid afternoons.
Shouldn’t they be spared merely for us so atleast, we can take a nap, binge on Netflix, sip a cup of hot tea or coffee which we usually have to skip or sometimes have it only when it gets cold.

I know, not only me but, you all mothers out there, are longing for such Sundays, when a day before, we would be shouting – Wow! Tomorrow is Sunday, let’s plan something.
Or just atleast be excited of getting a chance to sleep uninterrupted.

So, how would you want your Sundays be like?

Will these desires ever turn in reality or we would be just saving them as drafts in our closed diaries?

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Originally published on Momspresso